Needed This
Music that turns hard moments into blessings—and lifts dopamine through meaning.


This project is called “Need THIS.” Because sometimes the hardest moments in life are actually the ones we needed most.
Need This — an estrangement from my eldest son that I had earned and a fractured bond with my sister … and realizing later it was the greatest gift because it forced you to grow.
Cross on My Neck — about faith. The quiet strength that comes when you carry your beliefs with you every day.
Five Days — about having a deadline on your life and trusting the universe… or God… to guide you when you feel the pressure.
What You Gave — about my childhood and my grandmother Maria. Even the parts that made it hard for me to be my true self as a young gay man were still gifts that shaped who I became.
Stronger Than the Storm — dedicated to my partner Wyatt. Love that survives conflict, fear, and the storms life throws at relationships.
And my favorite…
Let God Drive — the lesson I learned in the 12 steps. The Serenity Prayer. Letting go of control and allowing God to guide your life brings more peace than you can imagine.
These songs are my anthems from 55 years of living.
If they move you, please share them with someone in your life who might need a little strength today. And if you’ve ever wanted to write your own life anthem, I’d be honored to help.
Join me this Monday at 5 PM PT so you can learn how to create the same kind of anthems in your life.


